Let’s just say, you’re better off not getting sick or injured in an
African village. If the wound or disease isn’t too bad, you may suffer, but you
will get better. Anything worse, you’ll probably have the money to pay for
transport to a hospital in the city. If you’re from the village, you will
probably die. Speaking with most women, they have many children, partly because
they don’t know how many will survive. A typical response… “ I have had nine
children, four are dead. Now I have five.”
Gbemissola just had another baby nine days ago. She waits in this
medical centre until her husband comes back with money to pay for the birth(probably
around 10 €). Gbemissola’s face is decorated with scars. Decorated, because it
is a symbol of her tribe, the Houli. She says she is neutral on the subject.
“That’s just the way things are,” resumes Gbemissola. She won’t scar her
newborn’s face. Not because she is against the practice, but because the scars
are passed down from the father and Gbemisolla’s husband is Fon, so no scars.
In general, this practice is becoming more and more rare.
There is no electricity in Kpokissa. There is no running water. And, of
course, there is no internet. In the last 20 years, our lives in Europe,
America and Asia, have changed drastically because of Internet. A world of
information is at our fingertips. Friends from afar are only a Skype away. When
I used to come to villages like Kpokissa, they seemed underdeveloped to be
sure. Now, they seem like another planet, but it is more that we in the west
live on another planet. The gap between us has increased by trigabytes. A kid
in Europe copy-pastes his homework from Wikipedia on his ipad, as Gbemissola’s
little baby waits in the dark for his father to return with money so they can
leave the rundown maternity… probably by foot.